Our Parshat HaShevua, Vayeira is sponsored by Yossie and Ester Sussman and family of Ramat Beit Shemesh who would like to dedicate this Parshat HaShevua to “a fellow named Moshe Burt: May HaKodosh Borchu bentch him with a happy and healthy year.” To the Sussman family, many thanks for your sponsorship and your continued kindnesses.
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Our Parsha opens with Hashem, as we understand, visiting Avraham Avinu on the 3rd day after Bris Milah, when Avraham was at the height of his pain following the circumcision:
“And Hashem appeared to him beneath the trees of Mamre, as he was sitting before the door of his tent in the heat of the day.” (Translation rendered by “The New Hirsch Chumash,” Sefer Breish’t, Perek 18, posuk 1)
Rashi indicates, “to inquire about his welfare.” (Metsuda Linear Chumash rendering of Rashi on Perek 18, posuk 1)
It’s not like Hashem needed to pay a visit to ascertain Avraham’s actual condition. Hashem is the Creator, The Master, The Ruler over the world who knows and is aware of everything. But Hashem knew that Avraham had built his life around knowing, and following the ways of his Creator and thus, it seems to this author, Hashem’s visit was to convey to Avraham His Love and Care. And so, as Hashem visited with Avraham, inquiring as to his well-being, Avraham pardoned himself from Hashem when he spotted travelers, inviting them into his tent.
Many of our S’forim and Chumashim seem to downplay the impact of the Bikur Cholim aspect of Hashem (as we understand), visiting Avraham Avinu, for the seemingly larger contexts of showing him honor for having done Bris Milah to himself, for his Hochnasat Orchim (his kindness and hospitality) toward his three guests (the Molochim — Angels) and the respective missions of the Molochim:
…Michael, who informed Avraham that Sarah would have a son; Gavriel, who overturned Sodom; and Raphael, who healed Avraham and saved Lot (Rashi, as explained by Gur Aryeh). The last two tasks, healing Avraham and saving Lot, constituted a single mission because they were for the sake of rescue. (Artscroll Chumash commentary of Perek 18, posuk 2 regarding Avraham’s sighting of “three men… standing over him.”)
But the Artscroll Kleinman Edition of the Kitzur Shulchan Aruch, Siman 193 provides a lengthy exposition on the mitzvot of Bikur Cholim. The Siman opens with a fuller explanation of the opening posuk (Sefer Breish’t, Perek 18, posuk 1) of Vayeira (Siman 193.1, page 350):
…We find that the Holy One,Blessed is He, that He visits the sick as the sages of blessed memory expounded (Sotah 14a) upon the… verse: “Hashem appeared to [Avraham] in the fields of Mamre…”; this teaches that Hashem came to him in order to visit the sick.
There is a note on the above explanation which states:
…. We are enjoined to emulate Hashem and therefore we are obligated to visit the sick as well. (Siman 193.1, page 350).Siman 193.3 (Artscroll Kleinman Edition of the Kitzur Shulchan Aruch, page 352) provides essential components for visiting the sick:
… Examine the needs of the ill person and to see what he needs to be done for him; to enable the ill person to find comfort in the company of his friends; and also for the visitor to think about the ill person and pray for Divine mercy for him.
From these events contained in the first five posukim of our Parshat, we learn and gain insight both from Hashem as to the Mitzvah of Bikur Cholim; showing, caring, giving strength and encouragement to the ill by visiting and caring about them, and from Avraham Avinu as to the Mitzvah of Hachnasat Orchim; inviting guests into one’s home, as well as tefillah: as vehicles for emulating, connecting with and coming close to Hashem.
Our Parshat’s next posukim (Translation rendered in the Artscroll Stone Chumash, Sefer Breish’t, Perek 18, posukim 2-5) detail Avraham’s encounter with his guests, the Molochim, as he sat at his tent’s entrance, in the heat of the day, while in the worst of pain from his Bris Milah:
“He lifted his eyes and saw: And behold! three men were standing over him. He perceived, so he ran toward them and bowed toward the ground. And he said, ‘My Lord [to Hashem], if I find favor in your eyes, please pass not away from Your servant.'” “Let some water be brought and wash your feet, and recline beneath the tree. I will fetch a morsel of bread that you sustain yourselves…” They said, “Do so, just as you have said.”
The Artscroll Stone Chumash adds these comments on Sefer Breish’t, Perek 18, posukim 2-5 (page 79):
Avraham’s action [in leaving Hashem to care for his guests] shows that “hospitality to wayfarers is greater than receiving the Divine Presence.” (Shevuos 35b; Shabbos 127a)
“A morsel of bread.” From this understated, modest description of the sumptuous meal he was about to serve, the Talmud derives that “the righteous say little and do much.” (Bava Metzia 87a)
As a recipient of Bikur Cholim, this author can testify to this mitzvah’s profound affects on both the healing process and on the mental mindset of the recipient of this kindness. And this author, as a single and a senior, has experienced Hochnasat Orchim, on Shabbos and Yom Tov as well as other times in between, at the highest levels from chaverim (friends) in Ramat Beit Shemesh.
As stated in previous vorts, this author makes no claims to be a Talmud Chacham or a great Torah scholar of any note, but just a stam, poshut observant Jew, perhaps not deserving of any special treatment such as the likes of the honor shown by Hashem in visiting Avraham to lift his spirits in his time of great pain.
But the kindnesses shown, in emulation of Hashem’s Bikur Cholim model, Avraham Avinu’s paradigm of Hochnasat Orchim; whether during a Shiva (mourning period afterr loss of a close loved one), or the multitudes of calls and visits of their fellows during hospitalizations or before and after surgeries and upon returning home by their Ramat Beit Shemesh chaverim, i.e. the preparation of meals and other kindnesses, which immeasureably aid the healing process and testified, that the Avul, the Choleh, that the lone individual, etc. is not alone. These kindnesses shown repeatedly to myriads of times towards their fellows in need, are surely emulations of both Hashem and of Avraham Avinu.
The Ramat Beit Shemesh community is a paradigm manifestation of both Hashem’s Bikur Cholim model, as well as Avraham Avinu’s paradigm of warmth and Hochnasat Orchim, and thus, is a model for emulation by Jews and kehillot everywhere toward their fellow Jews.
May we, the B’nei Yisrael be zocha that our brethren — the refugee families from Gush Katif be permanently settled and be made totally whole — be totally restituted for all that was stolen from them at leftist-agendized, supreme court legalized gunpoint, that our dear brother Jonathan Pollard be liberated and truly free — only upon his return home to Israel, and that Sholom Rubashkin, as well as the MIAs be liberated alive and returned to us in ways befitting Al Kiddush Hashem, as should the remains of the two chayalim from the Gaza War of two years ago. May we have the courage and strength to stand up and physically prevent the possibility of Chas V’Challila any future eviction of Jews from their homes and the handing of Jewish land over to anyone, let alone to enemies sworn to Israel’s and Judaism’s destruction and eradication. May we fulfill Hashem’s blueprint of B’nai Yisrael as a Unique people — an Am Segula, not to be reckoned with as with “the nations” and may we be zocha to see the Moshiach, the Ge’ula Shlaima, as Dov Shurin sings; “Ki Karov Yom Hashem Al’Kol HaGoyim”,
the Ultimate Redemption, bimhayrah b’yamainu — speedily, in our time”, — Achshav, Chik Chuk, Miyad, Etmol!!!
Moshe Burt, an Oleh, is a commentator on news and events in Israel and Founder and Director of The Sefer Torah Recycling Network. He lives in Ramat Beit Shemesh.